The Gentle Way to Achieve Your Goals
DAILY BULLET JOURNALING
I love my bullet journal. When I first heard about the idea, I was skeptical. Then, I heard Anna Newton, from the Anna Edit, rave about it and I knew I had to try it.
Here’s how I do it and why it has changed my life:
- I jot down only the things I want to get done today
- I check off completed tasks to give me a sense of accomplishment
- I migrate uncompleted tasks to the next day (without judgement)
- I look at consistently migrated tasks to learn where I’m stuck and ask myself if they’re really important
- I get a clear visual of whether or not I’m trying to do too much
- I get consistent reinforcement which creates strong habits
- I benefit from intentionality and focus, and building of neural pathways, that comes from handwriting*
My bullet journal consists mostly of daily to do lists. I tried to do the future log and the monthly log but they didn’t work for me in the long run. I do like to create a monthly goals list at the beginning of each month. I also use the index feature (kind of like a table of contents). Sometimes I insert special to do lists, like all the tasks I need to do for a big on-going project, or lists of things that I do for self care. I also have a list for clothing purchases to help keep me honest.
My daily lists are short bulleted phrases. Events get a circle bullet and time. When I complete a task, I put and X over the bullet. When I write the list the next day, I draw a right-facing arrow over the bullet of any incomplete tasks from the previous day and add it to the new day. If a task or an event doesn’t happen and I know it can’t or won’t in the future, I draw a line through it. I try to be equally happy with things that happened (as planned) and things that didn’t. Sometimes I’ll add items after they’ve happened and check them off. It helps so much to see all I’ve done. Almost everyday I include things like meditate, workout, take vitamins, do writing. Doing these basic things everyday, seeing them completed, reinforces my ability to reach my goals. And then I build on that foundation. It retrains my brain. It may seem overly simplistic but it has been life changing.
RESOURCES:
The best video to explain the process: How to Bullet Journal
The original: Bullet Journal
You could use any paper notebook like Moleskine or leuchtturm but I do like the feeling of the actual Bullet Journal. I’ve learned that the thick pages prevent ink bleed and that they have enough pages for an entire year.
* I also do journal-journalling, that is, stream of consciousness writing, based on Julia Cameron’s Artist’s Way morning pages. This is much less goal oriented and more creative and spiritual. More on that next time.















